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When Teens Borrow Calm Instead of Building It
Emotional outsourcing doesn’t announce itself.
It blends into daily life — into small, ordinary moments we often mistake for connection, support, or coping.
It isn’t loud or dramatic. It feels normal — until a pattern begins to emerge.
A teen today can feel calm — as long as someone else is holding it.
A text comes in.
A friend responds.
A parent reassures.
A screen distracts.
Relief arrives — but it isn’t owned.
More teens are learning how to borrow calm, without ever
Jennifer Avery
Jan 83 min read


The Catfish Effect: The Pull of Pretending
Netflix’s Unknown Number: Catfish is disturbing on so many levels, not only because a parent built an entire fake world, because it...
Jennifer Avery
Sep 4, 20252 min read


We’re Failing Teens if We Don’t Teach This
Before adulthood hits, teens need more than grades—they need life skills. Here’s how to prepare them to handle real-world challenges with confidence.
Jennifer Avery
Aug 13, 20253 min read


The Real Teen Crisis? Lack of Reps
Lately, I’ve been noticing a pattern—one that keeps showing up in sessions, classrooms, and everyday conversations with teens. It’s not...
Jennifer Avery
Jul 11, 20252 min read


Think Parenting a Teen Is Tough? Watch Adolescence on Netflix.
What the Netflix series Adolescence teaches us about parenting, prevention, and staying connected in a digital world.
Jennifer Avery
Mar 29, 20253 min read


GUEST PODCAST: "Redefining What Support Looks Like For Our Teens with Jennifer LeClair Avery"
Is your teen pulling away or shutting down? Learn the signs, keep communication open & navigate their independence wisely.
Jennifer Avery
Jan 30, 20251 min read


#04: Behind the Anxiety: A Teen Speaks Out
In this episode, a young guest shares her experience with anxiety, offering tips for teens and advice on how to support others through anxio
Jennifer Avery
Oct 4, 20241 min read


#03: From Hurt to Healing: Overcoming Peer Rejection
A young guest shares her journey with peer exclusion, offering tips on overcoming tough emotions and finding confidence.
Jennifer Avery
Oct 4, 20241 min read


#02: Teen Tech Withdrawal – This is what REALLY happens
"NO PHONE, NO SOCIAL MEDIA!" —seems like a parents dream right? But find out what REALLY happens to a teen who's had their tech taken away
Jennifer Avery
Jan 11, 20242 min read


Teen Boys: Navigating "The Feelings" Landscape!
Nurturing Your Son's Unique Pathway Life is a journey, and boys often receive messages emphasizing emotional control, focusing on...
Jennifer Avery
Nov 19, 20233 min read


TEEN DRAMA - The *NOT-SO* Silent Addiction (Insight from a Youth Addiction Counselor)
How to reduce TEEN DRAMA in the home and why they do it in the first place.
Jennifer Avery
Nov 9, 20233 min read


Episode 01: Falling through the cracks on Teen Mental Health
"This is what I wish my parents, my teachers and the doctors I dealt with knew..."
Jennifer Avery
Sep 28, 20231 min read


Healthy Routes Origin Story (GoSolo Featured Interview)
Jen was recently interviewed by GoSolo, read a short excerpt below or read the full article here.
Jennifer Avery
Oct 6, 20221 min read


School is approaching - ANXIETY RETURNS
If your child is showing signs of stress due to the upcoming school year, here are a few tips to help
Jennifer Avery
Aug 9, 20222 min read


LET GO OF THE WHEEL and get into the passenger seat!
Teenage years are complex; as parents, you feel as if you're losing them, wondering perhaps where you went wrong and then suddenly...
Jennifer Avery
Jul 21, 20222 min read


Summer Bucket List: Get Off Those Screens
After two years of Covid and screen time, let's get our kids back to being kids. I have listed some resources to help you and your family.
Jennifer Avery
Jun 26, 20222 min read


Children and Storm Stress
As a storm can be stressful, children often seek comfort. This article discusses how to deal with storm-related stress in kids.
Jennifer Avery
Jun 17, 20224 min read


Condoms, and sex toys in my teens room... Parents let's talk!
Parenting tips for awkward conversations with teens and sex.
Jennifer Avery
Apr 26, 20223 min read


Tears and Teens - Why we should embrace the floodgates as parents.
Helpful article for parents in Barrhaven to learn how to help their teens manage emotions
Jennifer Avery
Apr 7, 20223 min read


Youth Mental Health: A Holistic Approach vs. Medication
This article offers tips to help parents support their teens in dealing with anxiety and provide ways to reduce the teenager's anxiety sympt
Jennifer Avery
Apr 6, 20224 min read
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